Discussion in 'General Off Topic' started by J-Ninja, Sep 22, 2006.
In several ways, this is me.
I have always been attracted to the female body and i recently found i'm emotionally attracted to females too.With boys it's different,i'm not attracted to their body(maybe just the butt sometimes) but i can get powerful emotional feelings from them,so yeah.
For about 21 years i thoigh I was stright, like it was the natural thing to be, the only option to be....but for the past two or three years things have been differents.
this post is kinda of what happens to me. I like guys, a lot....sexually and emotionally (to the ones that are not idiots!) but i also feel emotionally attached to girls, and lately even sexually too......I´m driving myself crazy like really crazy, becuase around me there is no one single soul I can talk to about this....people just assume what you are and they don´t ask, I´m afraid what my girl friends would think....will they be afraid of me..?
I´ve never kissed a girl, becuase i´m probably a f**king coward, I´ve like girls, a lot...I even was like totally in love of one once.....
i´ve read most of your posts....and so many of them sound like me... So, right now in this very momment, I feel good to know that I´m not the only one confused.:'(
Well, just to say, i'm sure everyone in the forum is here for you Including me, so you ain't alone!!!! "Stand up f**king tall don't let them see your back"
Personally, Gay, and proud
^ I like that I just came out to like, to my friends, and I posted some stuff on facebook that like, made it obvious I was bi. I mainly only did this cuz I have a girlfriend now... But I ignore the people that are giving me poop about it. I'm me
"Stand up f**king tall don't let them see your back" ---Gee i needed that...thanks
have a cookie!
Tbh, when most people find out their gay, they're confused. Mainly because it's not a "norm" in society.
I grew up liking girls, but forced myself to like boys because that was the norm. I even became pretty homophobic at one point because I didn't want to like girls - I mean, even the mention of being gay got people calling you a fag and "ew gross!"
The way to deal with these feelings is just not to let them bother you. It's not a huge thing. Like, so what, you like girls too? It doesn't matter. You don't need to be confused/worried about it, just go with the flow. I mean, you might meet a boy or girl and grow to love/ect them, and when it happens, just let it happen.
People adjust to your situation if their true family/friends. If any friends give you grief, you don't need them in your life. I'm completely open about being gay and feel a lot happier about it. It's a lot a better than keeping it inside, and whereas, you may feel like you're bisexual, you still shouldn't hold it in.
So, just relax. Go with the flow. Don't worry about who you're gonna date or whatever, just see what happens. And if it is a girl, hopefully, it'll happen naturally and you'll adjust too it.
Sometimes i forget how amazing all MCR people is.
Thank You Artemis, you gave a really good advice, I really never looked at it in that way, you´re right I need to relax and face the facts that i might be Bi. -sometimes listening to people that past similar poop that you help you...and sometime it helps even more when you don´t actually know them...I feel like it a more neutral opinion...
Can I thank you again? THANKS!
My pleasure, it honestly makes me so happy to see everyone helping each other, though they may not know the person!!!
Gives me a helluva lot of hope!!
To be honest, i have NO idea. I actually think i'm not straight at all, i guess bisexual or lesbian. But i'll find out.
I'm honestly not sure because I've been strait for my 15 years of living, but lately I've been having this girl crush on my friend...who's a girl.
So I'm not sure if it makes me bi- she's my first girl crush, and I think she's the only one I'll ever have xD
So....maybe it makes me bi. Or...maybe I'm strait?
Im Bi. I hate being it sometimes
Although it's none of my business, may I ask why?
The way I came out was bad also people and what they say and cos i was bullied for it i pretended to be straight to be normal
Seriously, i've been bullied all my life, rumours are circling atm.
In my opinion, if they don't have to tell each othr they're straight, why would we have to tell them we're not?
I know it's rubbish when people say this, but try and be optimistic. As much as you can be. And there's loadsa people you can talk to, including me.
Maybe you're confused......
That's a tough one, though.
^ I'm in a similar situation - but I know I'm bi... The hard thing is coming out though, because I go to a girls school (and we all know how much girls like to gossip) I have only come out to a few of my close friends. I know my mum would be "disappointed" and that my nan would disown me so I can't really tell anyone in my family even though my dad won't care... don't really know what to do about that though... I think I might wait until I actually get a girlfriend.
I think people can be straight, but have exceptions, to be honest.
That's what I'd like to think I am. I'm straight, but there are a few select girls that I would try being with.
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